What matters more to right wingers?

I have no objections to people squeezing out 10 babies each, as long as they don't expect me to pay for it all, and they don't let their kids roam the streets smashing the place up. Unfortunately, we seem to live in a very selfish me-me-me world, where parents seem to expect those with few or no kids to bend every which way. Paternity leave for DADDY'S? Why should I be made to work harder because Jack the lad decides to breed with his woman like rabbits? We seen girls join the army and failed to go on parade, then sue us for 100 grand.... what next? I'm not jealous, I just can't seem to understand certain people's lack of responsibility when having kids. If people can't afford them, or they chose a career where it's not possible to have kids, then they shouldn't have them.